Love, pure and simple, is all that most strive for. It's the ultimate goal we all hope to experience one day.
There are other objectives we have in life, but when it comes down to what is really important, everything else can be replaced one way or another.
I don't mean to be overly sleek, romantic, naive or whatever you want to call it but reach into yourself when noone's looking and I believe you'll find it to be truth. You can still hold your ground and not admit it out loud if it makes you tougher ;)