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Josh Valentine

Life isn't about keeping score. It’s not about how many people call you and it’s not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn’t about who you have kissed, what sport you play, or which girl or guy likes you. It’s not about your shoes or you hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it’s not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn’t about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it’s not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn’t about that.
But life is about whom you love and who you hurt. It’s about how you feel about yourself. Its bout trust, happiness and compassion. It’s about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance and building confidence. It’s about what you say and what you mean. It’s about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else’s in a way that could never been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life is about!!

I'm looking for a girl.. a girl with self respect and self esteem. A girl that knows she deserves the best and won't settle for less than that. A girl that can be herself with me and not try to be anything different to try to please me cause if i can't love her for who she is then i'm not the right person and i should walk, she shouldn't have to change. I want a girl that i can trust with out a doubt in my mind. I want to be able to take her word for anything.. I'm not the jealous type and i don't want to feel the need to have to be. I want to know my girl is actually MY girl. I want a girl that isn't sex craved, as fun and great that all is, its not something important to me. I am perfectly satisfied just holding my girl, watching a movie or doing nothing at all and i want her to be too. I wan't a girl that doesn't do anything that she doesn't want to do to make me happy, i want a girl that will tell me no cause my goal is to please her and if its not something she wants then i'm not pleasing her or making her happy, so nobody wins. I want a girl that will tell me NO if i do something she isn't comfortable with, not just comprise herself for me. I wan't a girl that doesn't feel the need to have to dress up for me all the time cause she thinks if she doesn't have tight clothes and make up on i'm just gonna leave, I'm not that shallow and i want a girl that feels perfectly comfortable wearing baggy clothes and no make up cause i can guarantee that if i'm with her its cause she is beautiful inside and out, no matter what.. at least in my eyes. I want a girl that doesn't show off her body to the whole world and doesn't feel the need too. I want her to catch my eye fully clothed.. that shows me that she has more to offer than her body and is confident and respects herself. Plus if im going to be with her i want to be the only one or one of the very few that know what her body looks like. I want to deserve the privilege to see her body if thats what she wants to do. Not just be shown it cause she thinks thats all she has to offer. Looks only get you so far with me girls, gets you bout ten minutes.. after that you better know something. Looks are important cause i gotta be attracted to who i'm with but they arent everything. You have to have a personality and you have to have more to talk about then sex cause that doesn't fly with me. I am a very deep person and i want a girl that has depth too. A girl that will appreciate me and what i do.. not use me for their own self esteem boosts or whatever else. I want a girl that doesn't NEED me, that can stand on her own two feet and stand beside me, not lean on me. I want a girl that doesnt need me there but wants me there. I want to know that i'm there cause she actually cares not cause she needs me to keep her from falling on her face. I want a compassionate girl that just wants to hug me or kiss me for no reason, that wants to be held by me just cause she wants to be near me but i want a girl that doesn't feel she always needs to be with me. That still goes and makes time for her friends and family, not just cuts them out cause i'm in her life. I want to be a part of her life, not become her life. She had a life before me and i should be an addition that makes her life better, not change it so I'm the focus of her life. She still has an obligation to her friends and family that want her time as much as i do and i want her to make time for them. I want a girl that calls, texts or comes and sees ME and i don't always have to make the effort. If i'm in a relationship that means there is two people in it and we both have our part to up hold. I wont do all the work, i cant do all the work. I want to see effort on both sides. I want to get a text or call randomly just cause she was thinking of me.. i dont want to wait all day to hear from her to just have to try to get a hold of her at the end of the day. So basically, I just want a girl that blows me away and shows me she has a true heart.

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